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Books : 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 (123 Magic) .
Rating: 
- Common sense solutions
I bought the audio cd as it covers 1 2 3 Magic and More 1 2 3 magic.
I have enjoyed listening to the cd's albeit the music and intro are a bit irritating to my "Non- American" ears.
Thomas Phelan's presentation is witty and full of sense. I have only just started to use 1 2 3 magic with my 6 & 7 year old and life is already much calmer and the children have responded well to it. I think starting out with young children or those who are not familiar with time outs will have more of a challenge but the hard work is worth it.
Rating: - This really works
I bought 5 other books on the same subject to help me with my 6 (going on 16 and so fully of attitude) year old daughter and my 8 year old son. Quite simply it works! The key is not to argue with the children which the book emphasises through out. Every time you think "thats all very well but what if...." the question is answered. As a single parent who's ex is very soft with the children I was at my wits end - what can I say IT WORKS!!!! I lent the book to a friend who rang me half way though her holiday in France to tell me that the first few days of her trip had been hell, then she started applying the techniques in the the book and hey presto it works!! Do I really need to say more?
Rating: - easy to read and remember, is magic!
This book is really good have not used all the techniques yet as my daughter is only 3 years old but what i have used works a treat! i can stop and start different behaviours almost instantly! Saves alot of unwanted shouting at home and public places. Can be a little OTT on a few things but overall really good.
Rating: - A sensible approach to structured discipline
I'm not a big self-help book fan, but I am an educationalist, and I have used Phelan's approach with my own children. Phelan outlines a straightforward technique designed to reduce the number of confontational and/or undesirable interactions that take place between children and parents. The book highlights some of the critical moments that occur during the course of normal family life, and suggests useful ways of dealing with such tensions using a simple and easily understood approach, that most children over the age of two should respond to well. We have found that if it is used consistently for a week or so, the children respond favourably. Like any family, there are lapses when we are tired or the children are ill, for example, but we have found it relatively easy to bring their behaviour back into line. Gradually the children internalise the rule system and seem to respect it, as it gives them a useful framework for getting on with their parents and enjoying family life. Perhaps one of the nicest aspects of Phelan's book is that it successfully manages to avoid preaching, and relates some of Pehlan's own mistakes and failings. This gives the book a sense of humanity and realism. Overall, I think this book represents good value for money and is a useful tool for busy parents.
Rating: - every parent should have a copy
WOW! I am a single mum with two boys aged 6 and 8, the latter child is v challenging and this book has worked A DREAM. The best parenting book ever. Very simple. So far it has changed my life. You must buy it.
- Common sense solutionsI bought the audio cd as it covers 1 2 3 Magic and More 1 2 3 magic.
I have enjoyed listening to the cd's albeit the music and intro are a bit irritating to my "Non- American" ears.
Thomas Phelan's presentation is witty and full of sense. I have only just started to use 1 2 3 magic with my 6 & 7 year old and life is already much calmer and the children have responded well to it. I think starting out with young children or those who are not familiar with time outs will have more of a challenge but the hard work is worth it.
Rating:
- This really worksI bought 5 other books on the same subject to help me with my 6 (going on 16 and so fully of attitude) year old daughter and my 8 year old son. Quite simply it works! The key is not to argue with the children which the book emphasises through out. Every time you think "thats all very well but what if...." the question is answered. As a single parent who's ex is very soft with the children I was at my wits end - what can I say IT WORKS!!!! I lent the book to a friend who rang me half way though her holiday in France to tell me that the first few days of her trip had been hell, then she started applying the techniques in the the book and hey presto it works!! Do I really need to say more?
Rating:
- easy to read and remember, is magic!This book is really good have not used all the techniques yet as my daughter is only 3 years old but what i have used works a treat! i can stop and start different behaviours almost instantly! Saves alot of unwanted shouting at home and public places. Can be a little OTT on a few things but overall really good.
Rating:
- A sensible approach to structured disciplineI'm not a big self-help book fan, but I am an educationalist, and I have used Phelan's approach with my own children. Phelan outlines a straightforward technique designed to reduce the number of confontational and/or undesirable interactions that take place between children and parents. The book highlights some of the critical moments that occur during the course of normal family life, and suggests useful ways of dealing with such tensions using a simple and easily understood approach, that most children over the age of two should respond to well. We have found that if it is used consistently for a week or so, the children respond favourably. Like any family, there are lapses when we are tired or the children are ill, for example, but we have found it relatively easy to bring their behaviour back into line. Gradually the children internalise the rule system and seem to respect it, as it gives them a useful framework for getting on with their parents and enjoying family life. Perhaps one of the nicest aspects of Phelan's book is that it successfully manages to avoid preaching, and relates some of Pehlan's own mistakes and failings. This gives the book a sense of humanity and realism. Overall, I think this book represents good value for money and is a useful tool for busy parents.
Rating:
- every parent should have a copyWOW! I am a single mum with two boys aged 6 and 8, the latter child is v challenging and this book has worked A DREAM. The best parenting book ever. Very simple. So far it has changed my life. You must buy it.
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